{"id":2740,"date":"2019-01-14T01:58:22","date_gmt":"2019-01-14T01:58:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/?p=2740"},"modified":"2019-01-18T16:44:41","modified_gmt":"2019-01-18T16:44:41","slug":"the-alchemy-of-desire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/?p=2740","title":{"rendered":"The Alchemy of Desire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The ignorant man asks for material possessions, the intelligent man asks for enlightenment but the wise man just loves and receives everything<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all have desires. \u00a0In fact wants and then don\u2019t wants are regularly popping in and our of our heads. \u00a0But how often do we stop and ask ourselves what we do really, really want and even then, how much of the time are we really sure? \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What we put our attention on grows, it\u2019s a technique for manifestation we\u2019ll discuss later, so it\u2019s very important to make sure our desires are inline with our life\u2019s goals or we just might end up with a lot of unnecessary things or uncomfortable situations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s the story of the man who had everything materially and one day decided that he needed to find God. \u00a0His friends told him that he wouldn\u2019t find God in the US, he would have to go to India. So he took a flight to Delhi, got off the plane and told a taxi driver he was there to find God. \u00a0The taxi driver said that God wasn\u2019t in Delhi but he would take him to Rishikesh, that\u2019s where the Beatles went. When the man reached Rishikesh, he jumped out of the taxi and rushed up to the first holy looking person he saw. \u00a0\u201cI\u2019m here to find God\u201d, he said. \u201cYou\u2019ll need to go up into the mountains\u201d, said the holy looking person, \u201cThat\u2019s where God is, follow that trail\u201d. So off the man went, following the trail up into the mountains. As he climbed higher, the trail became narrower, the sun set and it became night. \u00a0The man struggled on in darkness, he had to find God. Then suddenly he stumbled, slipped and began rolling down the mountain side, into the black abyss. Fortunately, his coat caught on a branch and he hung there, dangling in the darkness. \u201cHelp, help\u201d, he cried. \u201cJust let go\u201d, came a loud voice from the darkness. \u00a0\u201cWho\u2019s there\u201d, asked the man timidly. \u201cThis is God, just let go\u201d, replied the voice. The man thought for a moment and then shouted, \u201cIs there anyone else there?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Freewill<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you ask people if they have freewill to choose the life they want, most of them will tell you yes. \u00a0However, how much freewill do we actually have? How many of our desires are just repetitions of past memories or a result social conditioning. \u00a0Most people\u2019s lives are governed by past actions and memories. We call this the software of the soul, the program that runs our lives. We do an action, which creates a memory, which leads to a desire and then a future action to fulfill the desire. \u00a0Even though we think we have freewill, most of the time we are following these same patterns over and over again. We\u2019re like the hamster on its treadwheel, running faster and faster, thinking it\u2019s getting somewhere, when in fact it\u2019s just going round and round. \u00a0This is limited possibilities. The desires we have and therefore the lives we create for ourselves, are limited by the past.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meditation is the tool which allows us to escape from this self-created prison of the past. \u00a0All memories are in the thinking process. Meditation allows us to transcend or go beyond thoughts. \u00a0It gives us access to a field of infinite possibilities. Through a regular meditation practice, we can begin to step out of limitations, to desire the life we truly deserve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Soul Profile<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing that we can desire anything is very freeing but can also be confusing. \u00a0Now we\u2019re spoilt for choice. How do we know what is correct for us? I suggest finding somewhere quiet and answering the following questions, to create a simple profile of your deeper self, we can call this your Soul Profile. \u00a0Some answers may change with time so look through the questions again, periodically.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> What makes me joyful?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> What is my purpose for being here?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What would I like to contribute to the world?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who are my roles models?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What kind of relationship nurtures me?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What can I offer others in relationships?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are my unique talents?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> What qualities do I admire in others?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How did I feel at the peak moments in my life?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What kind of world do I want to live in?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What can I do to serve humanity?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course it\u2019s still okay to have desires for material possessions, relationships, etc., but the answers to these questions will help guide us on our spiritual journey. \u00a0We\u2019ll also find that as we move forward with our spiritual goals, our other desires will automatically begin to support our journey. Our whole life begins to reflect our spiritual journey.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, before we look at the steps to manifest our desires, the Vedas caution us not to be greedy or over indulgent, which it says leads to instability, chaos, confusion, delusion, mental weakness, addictions and illness (mental and physical).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Steps for Fulfilling our Desires<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Asking for Guidance<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The heart is more refined and closer to our source than our mind, which easily gets confused and filled with doubts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sit quietly, close your eyes and bring your awareness into your heart center, in the middle of your chest. \u00a0Ask, \u201cWhat do I really, really want, what does my soul yearn for?\u201d and then just listen, Try not to judge or evaluate, just listen to the message from your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn\u2019t mean you should abandon your common sense and the rational mind but always remember that first impulse from your heart, this is your Higher Self talking.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can also ask for advice from friends and experts but be careful to only ask those who can support your goals<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Attention <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now we bring our attention to the area we want to change or where we want the desire to manifest. <\/span><b>\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By bringing our attention to something, we are<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">focusing energy in that area.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Intention <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With your attention set, express your desire in a simple phrase or sentence. \u00a0\u00a0This gives direction to the energy, it activates the energy to begin manifesting your desire.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here it\u2019s important to make sure you are desiring what you want and not what you don\u2019t want. \u00a0As we\u2019ve said, what you put your attention on grows. For example, rather than desiring for the pain in your knee to go away and thereby focusing on the pain, desire to be able to run and jump and dance freely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Releasing <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The next step is to release our desire to the Universe. \u00a0This is best done at the beginning or end of your meditation practice or just before you go to sleep at night. \u00a0This is when we are closest to our source. With your attention set, silently repeat the desire and then let it settle back into the silence. This is like<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">planting the seed of the desire in the silent field of Infinite Organizing Power.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Detaching from the Outcome <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now we<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">let the Universe handle the details. \u00a0If we remain attached to the outcome of a desire, we limit the possibilities to one outcome. \u00a0Detaching is like saying, \u201cThis is what I think I want but, if there\u2019s something better, please send that along instead\u201d. \u00a0The Vedas say, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Desiring for the fruit of an action implies lack of faith in the Divine\u2019s willingness to give all.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Patience <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In todays world, it\u2019s easy to want instant gratification but remember in your essence you are eternal. \u00a0Nature moves in rhythms and cycles, everything has its season. By rushing things, we often end up with something of lesser value. \u00a0Trust and allow the Universe to unfold its perfection. Again from the Vedas, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we use our power righteously, all good things flow to us.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Acceptance <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the moment is always perfect. \u00a0Sometimes we have to accept that the Universe knows best \u00a0and recognize that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sometimes it has greater plans for us. \u00a0Accepting the present moment allows us to see the opportunities and create our perfect future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Fulfillment <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enjoy the bounty that manifests every day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, our ultimate goal is to be able to spontaneously fulfill all our desires. \u00a0This can only happen when we enter higher states of consciousness. Here we are totally in harmony with all the laws of nature. \u00a0There is no longer any need for desire as everything we could possibly want is presented to us at exactly the right time and place. \u00a0To return to the statement at the beginning of this article, when our life and motivation is completely centered around love, everything wonderful spontaneously flows to us. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The ignorant man asks for material possessions, the intelligent man [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2740","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-meditation-and-mantras"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2740","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2740"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2740\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2754,"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2740\/revisions\/2754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2740"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2740"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rogergabriel.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2740"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}